Listening
Yesterday a friend of mine called in her funk, totally in the middle of a massive shift. I realised what it is to just listen. I know I don’t have to fix anything just listen. So I listened and listened and she was going through and around and up and down and every other place she could go I would only speak when she was really going off track to get her back on the path. It felt like ages until it dropped for her and it was in that moment before she realised that it had dropped. I said something simple that just automatically came out and she got it like she got it and that allowed it all to open and she flowed into a almighty shift and when the conversation felt done I said I am going and that I love her and she was so thankful and continued to put all the pieces of the puzzle together the rest of the night. Message here is you never need to fix something for anyone you just have to show up in your truth and unconditional love and they will clear what they need when they are ready, just hold the space for them.